The Social Networks!

Social Networks are a extremely major thing of the Web World these days. It seems like everyone is on Facebook, Twitter, Myspace, etc. There are some advantages to the web sites. You can network, connect with old friends, check certain people out. lol There are a lot of interesting things that can connect to these web sites. Communication use to be the key of good relationships. right? You don't have to talk to people on the phone anymore. You can go on their page to see what's going on with them now or check out there status.

There are scientific facts that the more you are on a social network the more neglected you feel, your self-esteem becomes lower. Actually, I can easily related to that. There have been times I found out that some people that I know have went to certain events I didn't know about. Sometimes the 100's or 1000's of people that are your friends are people that you've met once, or that you don't know at all but you two know the same people.

It just shows that you know a lot of people, Are they really your friend's? 60% percent of those people I don't even have their numbers. The people who contact you are the one you really don't care to hear from most of the time. Or maybe not!

Stuff becomes unpersonable sometimes. You find find out somebody dies, in the hospital, or something else happens before someone calls you, or notifies you at all. You would think phone lines would be less expensive, but all smartphones )with everyone has) has applications now, you have to pay that $30 or more every month anyway. So not so cheap anyway.

Then you find your ex-boyfriend who's married now with two kids, that avoids you or what you and him to reconnect. Huh? The high school folks that talked about you. That is all of a sudden cool with you or you find out that they are doing much better than you or worse. Wow!!!!

You can be bitter with that stuff even though it's easy to be. Like I said there are Advantages and Disadvantages to everything nothing is perfect. You do have to be careful, about some things, such as these kind of sites. They weren't created for you to be unhappy or bitter. They were created for fun, happy, times. LOL! We have to understand what's real and what's not real. It's ok to pick up the phone to call people or go back to e-mails. I'm sick of spam, people.

We have to be in tune with yourselves as people. Hugs and Kisses!! An average people need to be touched at least 5 times (especially woman)!! Talk to people who you care about. Maybe tell them that you love them in person would be nice!!!!! :)

Romance? Really?

Today has been a TV Movie day. I've seen some Romantic Movies. I was wondering is there such thing as a Real Romance out there like the ones in Hollywood Movies. I have heard some great stories about Romance in Marriages, Engagements, and a couple of relationships.

I starting to see that this Romantic thing is not really common. I know How hard relationships can be, they can be difficult and nerve wrecking. I have heard from my Mom that in Relationships that someone loves the other person more, that relationships no one loves each other equally! Wow! I can see that but I'm still skeptical to whether that is true or not.

I've been single for a long time now. In and out of relationships. I thought we were equally in love but not necessarily. I don't know the answers to relationships, but I believe that it's probably the best way to know is the ask the Creator Of Love!!! God!!

I've messed up some relationships in my pass. It's funny how one of my Friends from Ministry School use to always say. "You're ether single for a season or you're single for a reason". I've learned and grown from it. Truthfully still am. I need there is a lot to learn about this relationship thing. What to do? What's right or wrong? (Or course use common sense as well), but you know these days common sense is not common. It's good to use advice from people who've had there and done it.

The big thing to know is what "Patience"!!!!! We don't want to hear that word but it's so needed for and relationship, not just romantic.

To the real romancers out there, keep romancing because it's appreciated. Other's get with the program.