When I was growing up and still to this day I always struggled with acne. Not a day went bye without having something on my face. I'm a picker with is not good. Even if I see a pimple, I will doing anything in my power to get rid of it. Now, I have a blackhead tool to get rid of it. It always leaves a nasty scab, I end up picking the scab which leads to a horrible scar that's almost impossible to get rid of.
I've also notice that not only that I would to that to my face but I would do that to my emotions, my pass relationships, and insecurities. I would always let jealousy set it, every time I see my ex-boyfriend's or someone I was dating would move on with someone else. I would end up comparing myself to that person.
Even when their relationship with over, I would still compare and felt like I had to compete with that woman. Letting my low self-esteem get lower, cause the women that I would compare myself to would be top notch. So I thought. My scabs emotionally would get worse emotionally. Looking for other things to make me happy food, guys, and other things. Not letting God be the source of my happiness. I thought that being in a relationship and focusing to be married would fill the void. Cause I would and still see married couples be so happy.
I realized you have to have not just a person in your life but the right person in your life. You can know that by praying and listening to God.
Scars, Scabs, and even Wounds can Heal!!!! You have to let it heal, first. Stop picking and it. Put a bandage over it by Guarding your Heart and Mind! Phil. 4:7 Also your scars need time to heal as they say Time Heals All Wounds. Move Forward !!!!!We should set goals for ourselves. We all have issues, scars and set backs, but if we move forward we a guaranteed a come back. Come back strong! We have to learn, correct, connect and move forward. Also find people to help you out. Connect with others to help you reach your goals. Positive folks that will help you get to where you're going.
Help Others who were in the same situation you were in it's Time Out to be selfish. We need to help each other and stop hating on each other.
Love Yourself and Let The Healing Begin!!!!
Very profound!
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