The Pass Is Not Better Than You!!!

This week a friend of mine on posted a good point on Twitter. She tweeted something about how people wish "That Things Could Go Back To The Way They Were" she said it's not going to happen. Probably a while ago I would have been a little sad about that comment, but I fully agreed. I even responded "Things are suppose to be even BETTER than they were".

I'm the first person that loves to go back to memory lane. Reminisce about my life as a child form young adult. Even what had happened two weeks ago. Don't get me wrong it's good to remember but not good to dwell on the memory. That's how people stay bitter, angry, resentment, guilt, and regret. It's easy to go back and escape from the things that you're dealing with now as and adult. It's called growth.

Most people that I grew up with are married with kids now. Even Ex-boyfriends and Guys that I thought that I could spend the rest on my life with (Crushes). In High School I thought that most couples were going to marry each other, but married other folks instead, that were better than the people that they dated.

So folks just won't get rid of pass baggage that also created new baggage that collaborates into one big mess. Usually new baggage results to not dealing with pass issues. Even the good memories! You have to want better, newer, hotter things for yourself.

Don't you want better than the passed relationships, life, and others things you've done in the pass? I know I do!!! The 80's and 90's definitely had advantages and strong disadvantage as well as today but I show don't want to go back to that!! There's a reason why God wants time to go on, so we can go on and learn more, have more available to see, and to grow.

Learn from the pass and move on! Strive to be better than what you've done in the pass. Strive for new and greatest measures. If you think that things like music should be how it use to be, make it yourself if you're an artist or Support the one's that do, get them out there.

There are a lot a artist that is not getting the support that they need. The so called "Crap" that's on the radio is there for a reason. Other folks are supporting it. If you hate it so much than Take a stand!!!! Call the radio stations, I know that music has changed, but lets take the new beats and put it with an actual message. Teach the new generation how to give a message that make sense!!!

Let's stop complaining and leave it to where it's suppose to be.... In The Pass!! Let's Do Better! Not just for us for the folks the come!!!!

Pass Mistakes!!

I know that everyone makes mistakes and no one is perfect with decision making (especially these days). You think you know a person until you find out something that you disagree or don't approve of a certain individual that you have high expectations of.

Lately it's been like that in my life, excluding me. There's a lot of thing that I'm not proud about, but there are some things that I found out about people that I know and love that made me even rise my eyebrows a little or a lot. I definitely have no right to judge. Lord, knows that I have made some HUGE mistakes in my life. Even over and over again that I'm definitely not pride of.

It's hard sometimes to let pass mistakes go, but you can. If that individual let that mistake go. It best that we do the some. It's not smart stressing out over someone else's mistake. People know what the consequences of their actions but to get catch up in the moment of excitement, that they just don't care. I've done it. Lots of people that I know done the same thing.

Just pray for people, instead of talking about the individual, it's always a reason why people do what they do. Even if that person hurt you badly, betrayed trust. Cursing folks out will make you more angry and won't solve anything. Is a matter of fact will make you make angry, bitter, resentful and more disappointed.

Mom told me you will go though life with someone in your life that will disappoint you. It's what you do that will determine your level. Happy people choose to be happy, others choose whatever.

Don't judge others and say never. You might need that same people person in the long haul to help pull you out of something you never know. Be Forgiving!!!

If you've done someone wrong, repent! Understand what that person is going through.

God is all about forgiveness and repenting !!! If will make your life a lot easier!!!!