I remember when I was little. I would watch a lot of T.V sitcom shows like The Cosby Show, Full House, A Different World and many others. I would remember towards the end of these shows there was always a moral to each episode. You would always learn lessons to certain things, also when I was young there were real role models. Not just in the Entertainment industry but in the out side as well. People in our communities and people that should up for what was right.
People had a certain integrity, a certain level of respect for others. People honored and respected others talents. Entertainers cared about the community, their surrounding and spoke the truth about them, in song, movies and T.V. Their focus was not on Money, Sex, and partying your life away. Not fist fighting on T.V shows, or cursing every other word. Being confident in ignorance.
Entertainment was still entertaining, but it still made you think about consequences to your actions, this is what will happened to you if you decide to do certain things. Education!
Now Gossip Shows are #1 factor in this country. Not what's going on in the world. Why do I have to know about certain celebrities businesses? What about bring education and morals back to certain media that we know that the younger generation is watching?
Music should be more influential on educating people on more then just sex, money, and getting high!!!!
People life is more than what is on T.v or the Internet. Be an role model to the future in front or you (kids)!!! Show them that you can be more than pretty face, big butt, wacko social misfit that will do anything to be on T.V type person.
Thursday, July 21, 2011
Tuesday, February 15, 2011
What's Your Type?
In my days of working for my Mom. I've heard young ladies talk about what kind of ideal man that they wanted. Usually it would be the tall, light eyes, (black girls say) light skin with "Good Hair", a chiseled body,and nice smile. Personality maybe funny and a man that believes in God. I remember when I was a certain age , there were certain type of guys that I liked, and it usually was the biracial "you don't know what they are" type.
As I realized as time when on that I was putting to much emphasis on what a man looks like then I did on personality and integrity, which is never good. If that man is evil, contentious, and is not appreciating you. Then you find out how ugly he can be right away. Fine men and woman are even better looking with they have a heart.
Women shouldn't be interest in just the physical, because when that relationship is based on the physical, you both will have emotional issues. I've heard so much times that they wanted to have babies with a certain person or race is that they van have "pretty babies" or a certain looking baby. Usually that person is a single parent and later on regrets or resents that other person.
People we need to get smart on who we want to be in our lives. Ladies, I know about the good looking charming guy that sweeps you off your feet at first. Same with men! Woman can impress you guys as well, a woman can be beautiful, sweet, strong, loving, and can make a man feel like a King!!!! When you get to know them it's a different story. Watch and Observe when you are dating that individual (Singles) Do not rush into anything, take is slow.
Remember you don't have to have a "must have" of your type to be happy. Of course God will give you the desires of your heart. The mental, emotional, and spiritual out last than just the physical. Find a person that you can laugh with, the person that get's you, the person that knows your flaws and that can work with or around them. In another case pray that they will go away.
Usually people that have that "pretty baby" mind set, it usually they don't like they look themselves. You are a wonderful, beautiful, handsome and brilliant human being. Do let other's say that you aren't all that cause you are. Learn to love yourselves for who you are. You're some wonderful that God said he only need one of you, cause the world ain't ready for another one. LOL! It's True!!!! Your baby will be beautiful no matter what!
As I realized as time when on that I was putting to much emphasis on what a man looks like then I did on personality and integrity, which is never good. If that man is evil, contentious, and is not appreciating you. Then you find out how ugly he can be right away. Fine men and woman are even better looking with they have a heart.
Women shouldn't be interest in just the physical, because when that relationship is based on the physical, you both will have emotional issues. I've heard so much times that they wanted to have babies with a certain person or race is that they van have "pretty babies" or a certain looking baby. Usually that person is a single parent and later on regrets or resents that other person.
People we need to get smart on who we want to be in our lives. Ladies, I know about the good looking charming guy that sweeps you off your feet at first. Same with men! Woman can impress you guys as well, a woman can be beautiful, sweet, strong, loving, and can make a man feel like a King!!!! When you get to know them it's a different story. Watch and Observe when you are dating that individual (Singles) Do not rush into anything, take is slow.
Remember you don't have to have a "must have" of your type to be happy. Of course God will give you the desires of your heart. The mental, emotional, and spiritual out last than just the physical. Find a person that you can laugh with, the person that get's you, the person that knows your flaws and that can work with or around them. In another case pray that they will go away.
Usually people that have that "pretty baby" mind set, it usually they don't like they look themselves. You are a wonderful, beautiful, handsome and brilliant human being. Do let other's say that you aren't all that cause you are. Learn to love yourselves for who you are. You're some wonderful that God said he only need one of you, cause the world ain't ready for another one. LOL! It's True!!!! Your baby will be beautiful no matter what!
Wednesday, February 2, 2011
Fitness: Health? or Vain?
Why do people work out? Some say they work out for health reasons. Some say they work out so they can stay or get to a certain size. Woman say they want to look great in a skimpy swimsuit, to attract men and have their friends jealous because they have all the attention.
Why do we feel the need to work out? Maybe it’s because of the media that tells us we are fat, and we need to buy the latest and greatest thing that’s going to help us loss weight. Then we see celebrities that we want to look like, so more people can notice how attractive we can be. Not knowing if we go back to our old habits and back to the couch, we tent to put the weight back by being to comfortable.
When did it become the thing to look perfect? When did it become a mission to look like a model, actor, or a major entertainer? Now a days the men have just as pressured of being attractive as women. They have to look a certain way plus men have to have “Swag” now!! I know it’s not like that with everyone, but the majority out there is You Have To Look Flawless.
For years I had stopped working out and sat doing nothing. Now, I attend Zumba classes and it’s pretty fun. Then I kept looking at myself thinking. Why aren’t I’m losing weight? At first I told myself and others that I just wanted to tone and tighten up. Later, I became frustrated about not losing weight fast enough. Then I realized if I stop thinking about and stop worrying I’ll get to a place where I lose an inch or two. Like I said we need to stop focusing on being so called fat, and starting focusing on health.
I’ve been in the Modeling and Entertainment industry all my life. So I know all about the I need to be perfect or the need to look better than a other individual. The Compare and Compete! Maybe we shouldn't try to strive to look perfect, because no one is perfect. We should strive to be better and healthier. We shouldn't workout to be vain or make others resentful, or jealous. We should strive to be health and happy. You shouldn't have to rely on diets and other stuff to make you loss weight faster, because you can quickly gain it right back. Exercise, Eat Right, and Enjoy life should be the way to enjoy your life.
Why do we feel the need to work out? Maybe it’s because of the media that tells us we are fat, and we need to buy the latest and greatest thing that’s going to help us loss weight. Then we see celebrities that we want to look like, so more people can notice how attractive we can be. Not knowing if we go back to our old habits and back to the couch, we tent to put the weight back by being to comfortable.
When did it become the thing to look perfect? When did it become a mission to look like a model, actor, or a major entertainer? Now a days the men have just as pressured of being attractive as women. They have to look a certain way plus men have to have “Swag” now!! I know it’s not like that with everyone, but the majority out there is You Have To Look Flawless.
For years I had stopped working out and sat doing nothing. Now, I attend Zumba classes and it’s pretty fun. Then I kept looking at myself thinking. Why aren’t I’m losing weight? At first I told myself and others that I just wanted to tone and tighten up. Later, I became frustrated about not losing weight fast enough. Then I realized if I stop thinking about and stop worrying I’ll get to a place where I lose an inch or two. Like I said we need to stop focusing on being so called fat, and starting focusing on health.
I’ve been in the Modeling and Entertainment industry all my life. So I know all about the I need to be perfect or the need to look better than a other individual. The Compare and Compete! Maybe we shouldn't try to strive to look perfect, because no one is perfect. We should strive to be better and healthier. We shouldn't workout to be vain or make others resentful, or jealous. We should strive to be health and happy. You shouldn't have to rely on diets and other stuff to make you loss weight faster, because you can quickly gain it right back. Exercise, Eat Right, and Enjoy life should be the way to enjoy your life.
Wednesday, January 19, 2011
Confidence
Well, Happy New Everyone!!! Hope all is well with you and yours these days. I would like to talk about a topic that concerns a lot of people especially woman.
Confidence!!!! Confidence can be truthful, Confidence can be powerful, Confidence can be very attractive, Confidence can be positive and too much can be negative!!! Confidence either you have to much or you don't have enough. Confidence is base on self-esteem.
People that are confident in themselves also have good self-esteem. They are confidence in themselves because they know how to be themselves,but I know you're asking "What about the one's that are themselves but don't have any confidence in themselves?"
There are a lot of people that are intimidated by others which causes their confidence to sink down low. I have been in a lot of settings where I myself was intimidated by others and even with my own peers. I always didn't feel confidence especially around certain people.
Intimidation can get to you if you let it. It's all base on FEAR- False, Evidence, Appearing, Real. You can always assume that certain others are better, prettier, smarter, stronger, more disciplined, and of course more confident, but are they?
The reason why you think they are what they are is because You Think so. If you think that you are as good as any famous person or The so called "Popular One". Then guess what?? You are! Also what's even better is you can rely on God for your confidence and not people.
God is not conditional like people are, people can be discouraging and "SuperHaters"!!!
GOD IS NOT A HATER!!! GOD IS LOVE!!!
You can be encourage in God! You are Fabulous, You can be yourself around others without being intimidated and fearful.
Stick with Positive People! Stick with People that will encourage you to succeed and be fabulous!
Because YOU ARE!!!!
Confidence!!!! Confidence can be truthful, Confidence can be powerful, Confidence can be very attractive, Confidence can be positive and too much can be negative!!! Confidence either you have to much or you don't have enough. Confidence is base on self-esteem.
People that are confident in themselves also have good self-esteem. They are confidence in themselves because they know how to be themselves,but I know you're asking "What about the one's that are themselves but don't have any confidence in themselves?"
There are a lot of people that are intimidated by others which causes their confidence to sink down low. I have been in a lot of settings where I myself was intimidated by others and even with my own peers. I always didn't feel confidence especially around certain people.
Intimidation can get to you if you let it. It's all base on FEAR- False, Evidence, Appearing, Real. You can always assume that certain others are better, prettier, smarter, stronger, more disciplined, and of course more confident, but are they?
The reason why you think they are what they are is because You Think so. If you think that you are as good as any famous person or The so called "Popular One". Then guess what?? You are! Also what's even better is you can rely on God for your confidence and not people.
God is not conditional like people are, people can be discouraging and "SuperHaters"!!!
GOD IS NOT A HATER!!! GOD IS LOVE!!!
You can be encourage in God! You are Fabulous, You can be yourself around others without being intimidated and fearful.
Stick with Positive People! Stick with People that will encourage you to succeed and be fabulous!
Because YOU ARE!!!!
Saturday, December 25, 2010
2011
Christmas is now over and New Years is approaching. I know that 2011 will have some new additions to my life like a nephew and a brother-in-law. What will 2011 have in store for me personally? 2010 has been a blessed year for me and my family and I know 2010 is not over just yet and I'm open for more in the last week of 2010. What will 2011 have in store for me? What will I allow to happen in 2011?
The even bigger question is What does 2011 have in store for you? What do you expect in 2011? What will You allow to happen in 2011?
We usually allow ourselves to make up New Years Resolutions that we never stick too, or we never even do! We let certain things get in the way of us being the better self that we need to be.
Instead of making a New Years Resolution, let's make a New Year's Decision!!!!! Let's decide to be better, healthier, more wise, more confident, and more in tune with God.
Let's not allow our pass, offenses, regrets, and other weights in our lives control us. Let's make a decision in being Happy in 2011!!!!!!
We need to expect great things to happen in not just 2011 but period!
Let's Be Drama Free!!!! Let's Be Happy With Ourselves!!! Make a decision !!!!
2011 is the year for Great Expectations and Wonderful Things!!!!!
The Choice Is Your's!!!!!!!
The even bigger question is What does 2011 have in store for you? What do you expect in 2011? What will You allow to happen in 2011?
We usually allow ourselves to make up New Years Resolutions that we never stick too, or we never even do! We let certain things get in the way of us being the better self that we need to be.
Instead of making a New Years Resolution, let's make a New Year's Decision!!!!! Let's decide to be better, healthier, more wise, more confident, and more in tune with God.
Let's not allow our pass, offenses, regrets, and other weights in our lives control us. Let's make a decision in being Happy in 2011!!!!!!
We need to expect great things to happen in not just 2011 but period!
Let's Be Drama Free!!!! Let's Be Happy With Ourselves!!! Make a decision !!!!
2011 is the year for Great Expectations and Wonderful Things!!!!!
The Choice Is Your's!!!!!!!
Thursday, November 4, 2010
Invisible!!!!
Have you ever felt invisible? Have you ever felt like no one was listening to you, or no one cared if you were even in the room? No matter how good you look or How good you are at something it seems like it's never good enough?
I know I have. I can't even tell how long I've been feeling like this. It's been like forever. I remember when I was known for my own accomplishments but now it's seems like that I'm known as my mom's child or my sister's sister. People never take the time to know me. I always get interrupted when I speak or get a look that I don't know what I'm talking about or When I try to contact certain individuals on a social network site, they never get back with me. When they want a particular thing, you will definitely hear from them. I try not to get offended but sometimes it can be irritating. I always see certain individuals get all the love support from their peeps. It's like wow, What can I do to get that?
I was always scared to go to some extreme measures to get attention but I have thought about it. I know there have gone to some inappropriate measures to get attention. I've done some shady stuff that I'm not at all proud of, but Thank The Lord For His Mercy!!! Being Sneaky was a certain thing I knew how to do. I know how to be sneaky, cause no one was never to concerned. Tye Tribett's "Prodigal Son" : I thought do what you feel like doing, no way cares anyway. Maybe then someone will notice you.
I felt that, I felt like no one cares.
My Dad and Mom is always telling me what I need to do. I don't do nothing right? Maybe I shouldn't even be here. Maybe I should end my life or something, but If I die who would miss me? I felt that way.
Then God reminded me that He's still trying to get my attention. He want me to not feel invisible, but to stop treating Him like He's invisible, or to only want Him when He needs something. I could have slapped myself.
I was so busy trying to want people to like me and to notice me, that I never notice the one that wants to know me for me. I don't have to break my back trying to please Him, but with people especially loved ones? You better believe it.
He's the one who can help me, while other's are good to hurt me. Psalms 146:3-4
Though I have to learn to forgive other's as well as learn How to not be so offencive. Still in training for that. No one is perfect, I'm still learning and growing. I just wanted to let you know if you like invisible, you are not alone. I just want you to know to rely on God, no matter what.
I know I have. I can't even tell how long I've been feeling like this. It's been like forever. I remember when I was known for my own accomplishments but now it's seems like that I'm known as my mom's child or my sister's sister. People never take the time to know me. I always get interrupted when I speak or get a look that I don't know what I'm talking about or When I try to contact certain individuals on a social network site, they never get back with me. When they want a particular thing, you will definitely hear from them. I try not to get offended but sometimes it can be irritating. I always see certain individuals get all the love support from their peeps. It's like wow, What can I do to get that?
I was always scared to go to some extreme measures to get attention but I have thought about it. I know there have gone to some inappropriate measures to get attention. I've done some shady stuff that I'm not at all proud of, but Thank The Lord For His Mercy!!! Being Sneaky was a certain thing I knew how to do. I know how to be sneaky, cause no one was never to concerned. Tye Tribett's "Prodigal Son" : I thought do what you feel like doing, no way cares anyway. Maybe then someone will notice you.
I felt that, I felt like no one cares.
My Dad and Mom is always telling me what I need to do. I don't do nothing right? Maybe I shouldn't even be here. Maybe I should end my life or something, but If I die who would miss me? I felt that way.
Then God reminded me that He's still trying to get my attention. He want me to not feel invisible, but to stop treating Him like He's invisible, or to only want Him when He needs something. I could have slapped myself.
I was so busy trying to want people to like me and to notice me, that I never notice the one that wants to know me for me. I don't have to break my back trying to please Him, but with people especially loved ones? You better believe it.
He's the one who can help me, while other's are good to hurt me. Psalms 146:3-4
Though I have to learn to forgive other's as well as learn How to not be so offencive. Still in training for that. No one is perfect, I'm still learning and growing. I just wanted to let you know if you like invisible, you are not alone. I just want you to know to rely on God, no matter what.
Friday, October 29, 2010
Distractions!!!
There can be a lot of things that can throw you off. You're focus is not where it needs to be and that can either get you frustrated and concerned or not caring at all. Sometimes people use a lot of vices to get there mind off there troubles. There are people that use vices to take there mind off of things that they need to focus on. Whether if it's on purpose or not. They are called Distractions.
Distractions comes in all shapes and sizes. All colors, and so what you so desire. Whether it's a person, place or thing. It can keep you from your stay focus, doing important things, and they can get you into some major trouble if you allow them too.
It always sneaks up on you, whether you least expect it. Distractions start out great, somethings nice and innocent. Then can turn into something else. If you're not careful it can let to something like "Idol Worship". Really?
Idol worship is something you cherish more than God or before important things in life. So a person, a car, money, and other things can be a form of worship. To some people that's not a bad thing.
Distractions can definitely can be an addiction!!! You can going a far as to losing your house, family, and possible you're life other certain distractions. You can let certain things and people take over your life. Actually nothing should ever take over your life but God!!! Maybe your Husband or Wife!!
Not a Girlfriend nor Boyfriend!!! Live the life the that God intended for you to live. Not for certain individuals. It's never consistent with people. To many opinions and very little time to consume them.
It's okay the have fun and enjoy life, but there's a time for everything. Stay focus and keep a balance to what you need to do in order to succeed and also where you need to be in your life.
Distractions comes in all shapes and sizes. All colors, and so what you so desire. Whether it's a person, place or thing. It can keep you from your stay focus, doing important things, and they can get you into some major trouble if you allow them too.
It always sneaks up on you, whether you least expect it. Distractions start out great, somethings nice and innocent. Then can turn into something else. If you're not careful it can let to something like "Idol Worship". Really?
Idol worship is something you cherish more than God or before important things in life. So a person, a car, money, and other things can be a form of worship. To some people that's not a bad thing.
Distractions can definitely can be an addiction!!! You can going a far as to losing your house, family, and possible you're life other certain distractions. You can let certain things and people take over your life. Actually nothing should ever take over your life but God!!! Maybe your Husband or Wife!!
Not a Girlfriend nor Boyfriend!!! Live the life the that God intended for you to live. Not for certain individuals. It's never consistent with people. To many opinions and very little time to consume them.
It's okay the have fun and enjoy life, but there's a time for everything. Stay focus and keep a balance to what you need to do in order to succeed and also where you need to be in your life.
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